何在彬會長嘉言

要真正的能夠愛自己，第一個不要要求別人，不要想去改變別人

因為有時候是自己的想法也太過重，都是希望改變別人，當你想改變別人的時候

這種關係就會有衝突。允許每一個人活出他自己，也允許別人站在我們另一個對等的立場

你能夠用愛允許每一個人發展他生命要經歷的過程，帶著愛的意識，這樣的話才有可能做到。

The first thing about truly loving yourself is not to demand others, never try to change others.

Sometimes it is us who bear with burdened thoughts, all you want is to change others. 

When you try to change others, such relationship will result in conflict. 

 Allow everyone to live up to themselves, and also allow others to stand on the opposite position from you. 

It can only be done when you are able to allow everyone to develop his/her own life experiences, with the consciousness of love.

汶萊國際茶會 International Tea Party at Brunei